Psychotherapy

“Psychotherapy is not what you think. This is not a disease treatment. This is not the leadership of the wise counselor. This is not a common experience of good friends. This is not the acquisition of esoteric knowledge. This is not a demonstration of that person’s mistakes. This is not a new religion. Pegasus Books recognizes the significance of this. It’s about how you think.

It draws attention to the subtle hypocrisy in how you think. It features what you think of how you think so. Its not so much interested in the search for reasons for what you are doing, how much value that you have what you are doing. Psychotherapy deals with the way you think. How do you live with your feelings, your approach to relationships with people who have value for you. It’s about what you seek in your life and how, unwittingly, you make the sake of achieving these goals.

It helps to see that changes to which you seek already exist within you hidden. It provides an opportunity to see and take a reflection of something imperishable, that is your essence. “James FT Byudzhental, doctor of psychology. Why go to a psychologist if you have friends, neighbors, relatives? Why pay for advice? Why tell a stranger about their problems, if you can talk with a close friend who understands, sympathize, help? The answer is quite simple: Your friend – the person who is experiencing some of your feelings and emotions, as a rule they know your social circle and it is difficult to be objective.

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Relations Pendulums

Today, I want to talk a bit about relationships and love. It's no secret that in today's world, more and more lonely and unhappy people who have not been able to find your soul mate in life. And this despite the fact that the question of relations fully illuminated and exaggerated by the media. Why is this happening? The answer is obvious – the pendulum. Let's see how you can use the Sponsored links in relations with the opposite sex.

We take three different situations: 1. You are actively looking. Here is the best suited to use a very powerful tool – the external intention and visualization of the target slide. But first things first. Start with the fact that free your mind of debris and dies, pendulums imposed – for example, "symbols" of beauty, which is literally full of modern television, magazines and the Internet. Pendulums advantageous to drive you around by the nose, causing the search Bentley eager to macho or glamorous blonde with the merits of third dimension))). Turn your head for a while.

Pendulums have created an entire industry around this natural themes like relationships. They are ready to submit to the dish every taste – dating sites, numerous articles, which describe how and what to do and that is prestigious, and what is not, whole legions of psychologists, TV shows, etc. etc. Man, like the squirrel in a wheel, chasing unattainable ideal, and the result is still lonely. In other matters, enough about sad things.

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The Nurse

Negative mood he captures is not worse neglect, false, callousness and aloofness from him escape. And no need to hope that, over time, children are overlooked and as an adult nothing has really remember from your infancy. Everything that happens to them in childhood – as, indeed, and later – ends up in the subconscious. And if you do not want 20 years from now your child has appealed for help to psychoanalysts, and keep his mental health now. You – Parents.

You can do a lot of happiness for your baby. That's a nanny to pick up with this in mind. Which is better to find a babysitter? Perhaps, with a positive outlook on life, smiling, kind and caring. Yes! Do not forget about stress! Little kids – little bedki. But the nurse in any case should not irritate him crying at night. To do this, you are hiring a nanny and – to someone for your money doing a job.

And there is nothing in this reprehensible. What is important is the aspect of how their own children at the babysitter? Perhaps, yes. After all, a woman who has reared her children, definitely has some experience working with children. And if a woman has worked, For example, a pediatrician or obstetrician, the holding on to this nurse and do not let go of yourself until your chubby little boy is not banging at least 3 years! 🙂 When you nurse it is important to pay attention not only on how it reacts to your child (As looking like talking to him like taking your hands), but also on how he reacts to the baby sitter. Of course, only rely on the reaction of the kid on the new man is not worth it, because some kids to all new people can relate quietly, and can conversely start to cry no matter who picked him up, if it is not mom and dad. But still look to the future in nurse is a must. After that you can already take a decision on hiring new rights for its small.

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