The Nurse
Negative mood he captures is not worse neglect, false, callousness and aloofness from him escape. And no need to hope that, over time, children are overlooked and as an adult nothing has really remember from your infancy. Everything that happens to them in childhood – as, indeed, and later – ends up in the subconscious. And if you do not want 20 years from now your child has appealed for help to psychoanalysts, and keep his mental health now. You – Parents.
You can do a lot of happiness for your baby. That's a nanny to pick up with this in mind. Which is better to find a babysitter? Perhaps, with a positive outlook on life, smiling, kind and caring. Yes! Do not forget about stress! Little kids – little bedki. But the nurse in any case should not irritate him crying at night. To do this, you are hiring a nanny and – to someone for your money doing a job.
And there is nothing in this reprehensible. What is important is the aspect of how their own children at the babysitter? Perhaps, yes. After all, a woman who has reared her children, definitely has some experience working with children. And if a woman has worked, For example, a pediatrician or obstetrician, the holding on to this nurse and do not let go of yourself until your chubby little boy is not banging at least 3 years! 🙂 When you nurse it is important to pay attention not only on how it reacts to your child (As looking like talking to him like taking your hands), but also on how he reacts to the baby sitter. Of course, only rely on the reaction of the kid on the new man is not worth it, because some kids to all new people can relate quietly, and can conversely start to cry no matter who picked him up, if it is not mom and dad. But still look to the future in nurse is a must. After that you can already take a decision on hiring new rights for its small.